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Sleeping In The Forest (by Mary Oliver)

I thought the earth remembered me, she

took me back so tenderly, arranging

her dark skirts, her pockets

full of lichens and seeds. I slept

as never before, a stone

on the riverbed, nothing

between me and the white fire of the stars

but my thoughts, and they floated

light as moths among the branches

of the perfect trees. All night

I heard the small kingdoms breathing

around me, the insects, and the birds

who do their work in the darkness. All night

I rose and fell, as if in water, grappling

with a luminous doom. By morning

I had vanished at least a dozen times

into something better.

 

Prime Minister, will you stand up to violence against women? (by Sex Matters)

 

Today we have written to the Prime Minister, Rishi Sunak.

Dear Prime Minister

We ask you to take urgent action to halt an escalating campaign of violence and intimidation against women in the name of “trans rights”. Women are being threatened with social ostracism, loss of livelihood and physical violence; shouted down and intimidated at public events; and even subjected to physical violence – all for insisting on their freedom of belief and freedom of expression, and calling for existing sex-based legal protections to be upheld.

 

We urge your government to issue a call for evidence and to commission a rapid review on the impact of extreme transactivism on women’s rights, as it has done with other emerging threats to civil liberties and the democratic order. This will enable you to identify the specific actions that must be taken by the police, Crown Prosecution Service, courts and prisons to ensure that women’s rights are upheld.

Escalating threats

The campaign of intimidation and violence against women has been obvious for some time. The latest shocking example came on 31st August, when a violent criminal was acquitted on charges of inciting violence against women, despite video evidence.

At the Trans+Pride rally in London on 8th July, Sarah Jane (formerly Alan) Baker, who served 30 years in prison for horrific crimes, including kidnapping, torture and attempted murder, told the crowd: “If you see a TERF, punch them in the fucking face.” This incitement, and the response of the whooping, cheering crowd, were captured on film.

“TERF” stands for trans-exclusionary radical feminist. It is a slur often accompanied by misogynistic and sexualised threats. It is used against women who recognise the fact that men commit violence at greater rates than women, and that men cannot become women by changing their name, clothing or parts of their anatomy. This belief is also termed “gender critical”.

Initially, the Metropolitan Police brushed off women’s complaints about Baker’s threatening words. Only after multiple complaints from women and a public outcry did they arrest Baker. Despite his history of extreme violence and the evidence captured on video, the court accepted his explanation that his words were a “joke”, merely intended to get him some publicity and newspaper headlines.

A criminal justice system that is failing women

A woman did not commit kidnap, torture and attempted murder, spend 30 years in prison for these crimes and then dedicate her days to rabble-rousing against women who defend their rights and will not be silent.

A man did.

Similarly, the criminal justice system panders to rapists, child abusers and other violent men who demand to be referred to as women. It demands at every step that these men’s victims comply with this language, concealing the truth of male violence.

When women try to speak in public, the police fail to protect them from mobs of shouting, shoving, frightening men. When women are assaulted by these men, the police and Crown Prosecution Service are reluctant to bring charges. When a charge is brought, as we have seen with Baker, the courts fail to recognise the severity of the crime, or that it is part of a wider campaign of intimidation.

A whistleblower in the Metropolitan Police has revealed that at an official event for “Trans Day of Remembrance”, a speaker told officers that anyone concerned about transgender ideology was a bully and bigot motivated by hate. Officers booed and hissed when a well-known women’s-rights campaigner was mentioned.

This dismissal of women’s victimisation is familiar to all women who campaign against male violence. Police dismiss domestic violence as “both sides” and regard women as bringing it upon themselves by “nagging”. Women who complain about harassment on the street or at work will be told that they “can’t take a joke”. Women who are assaulted are told their own behaviour is the cause, and that they were “asking for it”.

A campaign of intimidation

By now it is obvious that extreme transactivism constitutes a broad and sustained campaign against women who stand up for women’s rights. The threats made by extreme transactivists like Baker are not merely theoretical. Men who harass women under the banner of transactivism do not restrict themselves to screaming abuse at women’s rallies: they wave signs with slogans such as “Decapitate TERFs” and “Kill JK Rowling”. And on occasion they commit physical assault.

This public intimidation and violence must be seen in the context of attempts – often successful – to destroy the livelihood of any woman who speaks up for women’s rights. On the internet, in the workplace and in schools, universities, hospitals and other services, a woman labelled a “TERF” will be inundated with sexual and violent threats. She will be told to recant and apologise.

If she responds by explaining why it is important to retain protections for women and girls, she may be reported to her employer and often to the police. Shockingly, their powers of investigation are often then subverted to become tools of misogynistic abuse and coercion of women. 

The most high-profile victim of this abuse is the author JK Rowling, who has written carefully and compassionately about sex and gender and has received death threats. She wrote: “We’re living through the most misogynistic period I’ve experienced.”

But thousands of ordinary women have been targeted too. In 2018 it was revealed that a Facebook group of academics acting in the name of “trans rights” were targeting gender-critical academics such as Professor Kathleen Stock. One member said: “File a hate crime report against her, and then the chairman and vice-chair [of her department].” Another said: “Drag them over the f*****g coals.”

We call on you, prime minister, to lead the fightback. We urge you to condemn the violence and intimidation against gender-critical women, to commit to addressing it and to open a call for evidence. 

 

Yours sincerely
Maya Forstater, executive director, Sex Matters
Helen Joyce, director of advocacy, Sex Matters, author of Trans: when ideology meets reality
Naomi Cunningham, barrister, chair, Sex Matters
Baroness Bray of Coln
Baroness Finn
Joan Smith, author and journalist, co-chair of the Mayor of London’s VAWG board 2013–2021
Karen Ingala Smith, CEO nia, author of Defending Women’s Spaces
Dr Shonagh Dillon, CEO Aurora New Dawn
Nimco Ali, FGM survivor, author, co-founder, the Five Foundation
Johann Lamont, former leader, Scottish Labour, MSP 1999-2021
Jenny Marra, Scottish Labour MSP, 2011-2021
Joan McAlpine, journalist and former MSP
Julie Bindel, journalist, author and feminist campaigner against male violence
Dame Jenni Murray DBE, journalist and broadcaster
Beatrix Campbell OBE, writer and broadcaster
Kathleen Stock, writer
Victoria Smith, writer
Susan Dalgaty, journalist
Jane Clare Jones, Centre for Feminist Thought
Kate Scottow, free-speech campaigner
Sharron Davies MBE, athlete, Olympic medalist
Mara Yamauchi, athlete, two-time olympian
Judith Green, co-founder and director, Woman’s Place UK
Lucy Masoud, barrister and director, Woman’s Place UK
Kim Thomas, director, Woman’s Place UK
Nicola Williams, Fair Play For Women
Fiona McAnena, Fair Play For Women
Kate Harris, co-founder, LGB Alliance
Bev Jackson, co-founder, LGB Alliance
Kate Barker, CEO, LGB Alliance
Bronwen Evans, LGB Alliance Cymru
Stephanie Davies-Arai BEM, Transgender Trend
Shelley Charlesworth, Transgender Trend
Tanya Carter and Tracy Shaw, Safe Schools Alliance
Heather Binning,  Women’s Rights Network
Trina Budge, co-director, For Women Scotland
Marion Calder, co-director, For Women Scotland
Susan Smith, co-director, For Women Scotland
Lucy Hunter Blackburn, policy analyst, MurrayBlackburnMackenzie
Lisa Mackenzie, policy analyst, MurrayBlackburnMackenzie
Kath Murray, policy analyst and criminologist, MurrayBlackburnMackenzie/University of Edinburgh
Clare Blom, co-founder, Women Won’t Wheesht
Jenny Reilly, co-founder, Women Won’t Wheesht
Julie Marshall, co-founder, Women Won’t Wheesht
Caroline McAllister, co-founder, Women Won’t Wheesht
Janice Williams, OBJECT
Sarah Vine KC, on behalf of Legal Feminist
Stella O’Malley, Genspect
James Esses, co-founder, Thoughtful Therapists
Chris Goddard, Thoughtful Therapists
Karen Varley, founder and director, Conservatives For Women
Jeannette Towey, director, Conservatives For Women
Alice Bondi, Labour Women’s Declaration working group
Dr Hannah Ryan, Labour Women’s Declaration working group
Mary Curran, Labour Women’s Declaration working group
Jane Ayres, Labour Women’s Declaration working group
Bronwen Davies, Labour Women’s Declaration Cymru
Dr Zoe Hollowood, Liberal Voice for Women
Allison Jenner, Liberal Voice for Women
Maureen O’Hara, WDI-UK
Lynne Harne, Lesbian Rights Alliance
Carol Angharad, Lesbian Labour
Paula Boulton, Lesbian Labour and Lesbian Fightback
Stella Foster, Lesbian Labour
M Cameron, Scottish Feminist Network
K Cotter, Scottish Feminist Network
Dr Lorraine Douglas, Scottish Lesbians
Jenny Willmott, Scottish Lesbians
Dawn Furness, environmentalist and women’s rights campaigner
Ali Morris, Merched Cymru
Michael Conroy, Men at Work
Sarah Phillimore, barrister, co-founder Fair Cop
Harry Miller, co-founder Fair Cop
William Mackesy, Alumni for Free Speech
Graham Linehan, comedy writer
James Dreyfus, actor
Andrew Doyle, comedian, author and broadcaster
Denise Fahmy, Freedom in the Arts
Rosie Kay, Freedom in the Arts
James Chiavarini, restauranteur
Rachel Rooney, children’s author and teacher
Jane Harris, author
Gillian Philip, writer
Rose George, author
Malcolm Clark, documentary maker
Professor Alice Sullivan, University College London
Professor Sarah Pedersen, Robert Gordon University
Professor Jo Pheonix, Reading University
Dr Shereen Benjamin, University of Edinburgh
Dr Heather Brunskell-Evans, author of Transgender Body Politics
Michelle Shipworth, associate professor, University College London
Dr Michael Biggs, University of Oxford, Sex Matters board member
Dr Emma Hilton, University of Manchester, Sex Matters board member
Anya Palmer, barrister
Peter Daly, solicitor
Monica Kurnatowska, solicitor, Sex Matters advisory group member
Rebecca Bull, solicitor, Sex Matters board member
Audrey Ludwig, solicitor
Catherine Hawkins, solicitor
Diane Holyoak, teacher and feminist campaigner for women’s and girls’ sex-based rights
Jo Campbell, carer and lesbian activist
Venice Allan, women’s rights campaigner
Ann Sinnott, Authentic Equity Alliance
Raquel Rosario Sánchez, Centre for Gender and Violence Research
Milli Hill, author and feminist campaigner
Tracey Smith, Labour Women’s Declaration Working Group and Sheffield GC Network
Lynn Alderson, Labour Women’s Declaration working group
Dennis Noel Kavanagh, legal commentator and gay rights activist
Julia Casimo, chartered accountant, Sex Matters board member
Jenny Lindsay, poet, writer
Martin Carr, Sex Matters advisory group member
Frances Weetman, writer
Beck Laxton, freelance designer and editor
Jo Bartosch, assistant editor The Critic
Pilgrim Tucker, PhD researcher, Open University (campaigner and writer)
Northern Radfem Network on behalf of all our members.
Simon Briscoe, statistician, Sex Matters advisory group member
Cathy Devine, independent researcher, Sex Matters advisory group member
Helen Saxby, feminist writer
Jeni Harvey, feminist writer
Sonya Douglas, artist, writer, poet, Sex Matters advisory group member
Nicola Carr, feminist activist
Julia Williams, writer and editor

 

Prime Minister, will you stand up to violence against women? - Sex Matters (sex-matters.org)

 

Defend us

HONESTY (by David Whyte)

is reached through the doorway of grief and loss. Where we cannot go in our mind, our memory, or our body is where we cannot be straight with another, with the world, or with our self. The fear of loss, in one form or another, is the motivator behind all conscious and unconscious dishonesties: all of us are afraid of loss, in all its forms, all of us, at times, are haunted or overwhelmed by the possibility of a disappearance, and all of us therefore, are one short step away from dishonesty. Every human being dwells intimately close to a door of revelation they are afraid to pass through. Honesty lies in understanding our close and necessary relationship with not wanting to hear the truth.

The ability to speak the truth is as much the ability to describe what it is like to stand in trepidation at this door, as it is to actually go through it and become that beautifully honest spiritual warrior, equal to all circumstances, we would like to become. Honesty is not the revealing of some foundational truth that gives us power over life or another or even the self, but a robust incarnation into the unknown unfolding vulnerability of existence, where we acknowledge how powerless we feel, how little we actually know, how afraid we are of not knowing and how astonished we are by the generous measure of loss that is conferred upon even the most average life.

Honesty is grounded in humility and indeed in humiliation, and in admitting exactly where we are powerless. Honesty is not found in revealing the truth, but in understanding how deeply afraid of it we are. To become honest is in effect to become fully and robustly incarnated into powerlessness. Honesty allows us to live with not knowing. We do not know the full story, we do not know where we are in the story; we do not know who is at fault or who will carry the blame in the end. Honesty is not a weapon to keep loss and heartbreak at bay, honesty is the outer diagnostic of our ability to come to ground in reality, the hardest attainable ground of all, the place where we actually dwell, the living, breathing frontier where there is no realistic choice between gain or loss.

…

HONESTY

From CONSOLATIONS:

The Solace, Nourishment and Underlying Meaning of Everyday Words.

Revised Edition : David Whyte and Many Rivers Press

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For When People Ask (by Rosemerry Wahtola Trommer)

 

I want a word that means

𝘰𝘬𝘢𝘺 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘯𝘰𝘵 𝘰𝘬𝘢𝘺,

more than that: a word that means

𝘥𝘦𝘷𝘢𝘴𝘵𝘢𝘵𝘦𝘥 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘴𝘵𝘶𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘥 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘫𝘰𝘺.

I want the word that says

𝘐 𝘧𝘦𝘦𝘭 𝘪𝘵 𝘢𝘭𝘭 𝘢𝘭𝘭 𝘢𝘵 𝘰𝘯𝘤𝘦.

The heart is not like a songbird

singing only one note at a time,

more like a Tuvan throat singer

able to sing both a drone

and simultaneously

two or three harmonics high above it—

a sound, the Tuvans say,

that gives the impression

of wind swirling among rocks.

The heart understands swirl,

how the churning of opposite feelings

weaves through us like an insistent breeze

leads us wordlessly deeper into ourselves,

blesses us with paradox

so we might walk more openly

into this world so rife with devastation,

this world so ripe with joy.

 

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